Reclaiming Your Sacred Worth: Embracing the Light and Shadow of the Divine Feminine.
- Kari Hilborn

- Nov 14, 2025
- 2 min read
We live in a culture that tells us our value must be earned. Through speed, achievement, and endless doing, we are taught that we must constantly prove ourselves—yet the truth is, our worth is not something to be earned. It is always within us. It is a sacred birthright.
So often, we find ourselves in the trap of comparison. We try to convince ourselves that we must be more—more successful, more educated, more worthy—than we currently are. But no amount of doing can ever truly satisfy. The pursuit of external validation will always feel incomplete because our worth is inherent, not contingent.
When we begin to recognise that our value isn’t tied to achievement, we can finally embody love as our essence. We can remember that we are complete, not because of what we accomplish, but simply because we exist.
The wisdom of the Divine Goddess Hygieia reminds us that nurturing ourselves, restoring balance, and caring for our bodies and minds are sacred acts—not vanity. Self-care is devotion. Taking the time to tend to your own needs is not selfish—it is holy. It is a return to your natural, divine flow.
And yet, there is another current flowing beneath this gentle wisdom—the dark, sovereign feminine. Mary Magdalene’s teachings in the Gnostic texts speak to this truth:.he first form is darkness … the seventh is the wrathful wisdom.”
This wisdom tells us that sacred power is born not only in light but also in shadow. It is forged in the depths of our own underworld, in the places of pain, grief, and fear. The dark goddess reminds us that embracing the full spectrum of our being—our fury, our grief, our unacknowledged power—is a radical act of reclamation.
So how do we reclaim our sacred worth—our full, deep, divine worth, in both light and shadow? By returning to the stillness of the Divine Feminine within us. By honouring both the gentle and the fierce. By stepping into our inner temple, tending to ourselves with reverence, and remembering our holy essence.
Our sacred worth is not something to earn, it is something to remember. And in remembering, we reclaim our power, our voice, and our divine essence.





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